COUNSELLING, PSYCHOLOGY, PSYCHOTHERAPY
Below are some views about
psychotherapy. This is presented as a general outline of my interests and is not meant to adequately describe my way of working
to potential clients; although I think it does say something about
my general approach to practice.
A philosophy of therapeutic
practice
'Psychotherapy',
'Counselling', and 'Counselling Psychology', are various terms
for the professional practice of exploring
human experiences together with another person, with the intention of assisting personal understanding, sometimes
in unexpected and surprising ways. In many cases the various professional
titles no longer indicate much difference in actual practice.
No one is an expert on
life. I suggest that when searching
for a counsellor, psychologist, or therapist, that a potential client
might consider navigating with their intuition in
order to find a human being that they feel they will be able to relate
to, someone who is open to self-examination as well as interested
in the worlds of other people. Athough the practitioner's experience,
education, and credentials may be important, psychotherapy (my preferred
term) is a person-to-person relationship before it is anything else.
As in any relationship, client and therapist need to ask themselves,
'can I engage with this person'? I am convinced that no matter what
other useful and important things are done in therapy, its effectiveness
rests upon the human relationship within which everything else occurs. Research supports the importance of the relationship in psychotherapy.
For me, psychotherapy is also a
dialogue of depth. No matter how the
life problem or issue initially presents itself, it often connects to our deepest assumptions about
life, and raises questions about how we should live, and what is meaningful
to us. These are the
kinds of questions which do not have ready conclusions, but they
inspire us to contemplate together, which
I believe is itself therapeutic and exciting.
I see therapy as incorporating
qualities such as attentiveness, compassion, courage, and honesty. It is a
respectful and sometimes challenging engagement with another person. My intention as a therapist
is to be as present as possible in order to explore carefully the challenges
my clients are living with.
My practice incorporates
a democratic approach that accepts and welcomes those
aspects of ourselves that are usually judged, exiled and ostracised, by ourselves and others.
The client and I engage together in order to develop
creative actions and new ways of living. We become curators of novelty, gently finding more satisfying ways of living day-to-day.
Therapy is ideally a refuge where
'thinking' can take place. We contemplate and explore together by listening carefully to how our assumptions shape our experiences of life.
For me, 'thinking' is the ability to dwell with something that is
initially confusing and unclear until it gradually reveals itself. This revelation usually brings a feeling of relief and enables new choices and opportunities.
Each
person has an uniqueness that needs to be discovered gradually. Each client decides how they would like to work, but presumably including all levels - cognitive, behavioural, & emotional, in order to achieve lasting change.
Greg Madison
Brighton and London
Email Greg
Chartered & Registered HPC Psychologist and Psychotherapist (EU and UK registered). Central London Harley Street Gloucester Place Therapedia Brighton & Hove Psychotherapy Couselling Coaching

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